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Posted on 02/06/2010

What do ya'll think? Fortunately, I've always been told I'm cute or look nice, but it wasn't until I began to self-actualize and come into my own...feel joyful and peace with who I am, confident in my own skin that I was called sexy!!! In my opinion, it is a state of being...confidence that makes one sexy. What say you?



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Posted on 02/08/2010

Quoting sistercounselor

Oooo, chile, say that again!!! Sing like Luther or Barry White...something about those deep, strong voices... Oooo Barry!!! Saaang to Momma Kia! Sang alllllll night long! Woo Hoooo! LOL!
Integrity! Now that's a word I'd like to hear more often and a trait I'd like to behold!!! Wow!


Amen SisterC!



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Posted on 02/08/2010

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Confidence has got to be number one on the list--my list, anyway.  Not arrogance, not a deliberate or calculated swagger, but genuine, doesn't-need-to-shout-about-itself or work-to-show-itself-off confidence. 

After that....well, then things get a bit complicated....  It all depends on  3,784,296 other indefinable nuances of temperment, personality, looks, sense of humor, etc., etc., etc., etc. -- most of which get thoroughly analyzed by the subconscious mind with lightening speed, and then the analyses get tossed up into the conscious mind in crypic notations such as "OMG is he hot," Good Lord, please tell me that man is single/I think my knees just turned to jelly," or "There's just something about him that I can't....I don't know...He's just so nice...it's all I can do to keep my hands off him."  And then there's my personal favorite scientific analysis of what makes a man sexy to me:  "There's just something about his smile that makes me want to fall right into it and cozy up there for the rest of my life."

But none of these simplistic and cryptic notations explain a damn thing, do they?  Which is probably why we so often call the complicated "business" of falling in love "Magic."  So, there you have it:  What makes a man sexy?  Confidence and Magic.  Whatever magic works for you.








Girl, I like that...confidence and MAGIC ...whatever magic is for you. I know, right? Its like that "thing" I can't put my finger on, but just exists. "It" just DOES!!! Maybe its the Chemistry or pheromones!
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YESSS! that's likely it for me...that MAGIC...the hormones in a man which triger something in ME which I can't even explain. He can't fake it, conjure it up, or make it happen..it just DOES!  Pheremones in action!...Ooooo, la la! Ayi yi yi!!!! Bring it ON, Papi!!! LOL



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Posted on 02/08/2010

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Agree SisterC..Confidence is sexy... I also think having integrity and a sense of humility are sexy.....And if a man can sing like Luther Vandross or Barry White, EXTRA sexy lol.


Oooo, chile, say that again!!! Sing like Luther or Barry White...something about those deep, strong voices... Oooo Barry!!! Saaang to Momma Kia! Sang alllllll night long! Woo Hoooo! LOL!
Integrity! Now that's a word I'd like to hear more often and a trait I'd like to behold!!! Wow!



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Posted on 02/08/2010

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Confidence and attitude.  AND yes DON...best description ever. lol.
 
ANd Ms. Swirl...you have it.


Thank you, Love!!!! :)



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Posted on 02/07/2010

Confidence and attitude.  AND yes DON...best description ever. lol.
 
ANd Ms. Swirl...you have it.



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Posted on 02/07/2010

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What do ya'll think? Fortunately, I've always been told I'm cute or look nice, but it wasn't until I began to self-actualize and come into my own...feel joyful and peace with who I am, confident in my own skin that I was called sexy!!! In my opinion, it is a state of being...confidence that makes one sexy. What say you?


Agree SisterC..Confidence is sexy... I also think having integrity and a sense of humility are sexy.....And if a man can sing like Luther Vandross or Barry White, EXTRA sexy lol.



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Posted on 02/06/2010

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What do ya'll think? Fortunately, I've always been told I'm cute or look nice, but it wasn't until I began to self-actualize and come into my own...feel joyful and peace with who I am, confident in my own skin that I was called sexy!!! In my opinion, it is a state of being...confidence that makes one sexy. What say you?


Confidence has got to be number one on the list--my list, anyway.  Not arrogance, not a deliberate or calculated swagger, but genuine, doesn't-need-to-shout-about-itself or work-to-show-itself-off confidence. 

After that....well, then things get a bit complicated....  It all depends on  3,784,296 other indefinable nuances of temperment, personality, looks, sense of humor, etc., etc., etc., etc. -- most of which get thoroughly analyzed by the subconscious mind with lightening speed, and then the analyses get tossed up into the conscious mind in crypic notations such as "OMG is he hot," Good Lord, please tell me that man is single/I think my knees just turned to jelly," or "There's just something about him that I can't....I don't know...He's just so nice...it's all I can do to keep my hands off him."  And then there's my personal favorite scientific analysis of what makes a man sexy to me:  "There's just something about his smile that makes me want to fall right into it and cozy up there for the rest of my life."

But none of these simplistic and cryptic notations explain a damn thing, do they?  Which is probably why we so often call the complicated "business" of falling in love "Magic."  So, there you have it:  What makes a man sexy?  Confidence and Magic.  Whatever magic works for you.







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Posted on 02/06/2010

Quoting DONTFITMOLD

Physical attraction with a bucket of intelligence, stir in a pound of humor, teased with spices. Simmered with hot topics and cooling whispers.....yummy tasting dish... apply to both gen...


Hmmm, I think I just met my match. Wink Win! Smooches!



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Physical attraction with a bucket of intelligence, stir in a pound of humor, teased with spices. Simmered with hot topics and cooling whispers.....yummy tasting dish... apply to both gen...



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